I'm finding my father in is bedroom for several weeks with his head in his hands just rocking. He tells me everything is fine, but is afraid to go to sleep. His health is not the best. I tried to take him to the emergency room last night, but he refused. I know his health is not the best, but I would really like to get him to a doctor and find out for myself, but he refuses. How do I get him to understand and get him to a doctor. He's in is early 60's and he lost his brother about 2 yrs ago to cancer. I'm at my wits end and want to help him. Help!